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More Love Stories

Jennifer & Jim

“Most of my dates would start off fast and then fade quickly, and I seemed to date a lot of unavailable men. I only dreamed of being adored by someone, and was starting to lose faith that their were men that wanted to be in a healthy relationship.

There was a gentleman I started dating just as we were wrapping up our coaching. I stayed intentional in keeping it light, letting him lead and believing it could happen for me. I now believe!!

Well, I can’t say it is merely coincidence that the guy I started seeing a couple months ago has turned into a ‘keeper’. And, he’s all the things I didn’t believe existed for me: he adores me, wants to protect me, is the alpha (former military guy, so that helps) is uber-bright, and we love lots of similar things. He’s asked me what my dream trip would be, and is already plotting how to make it happen. And I LET him. It’s a weird feeling for me to let him handle life. But it works really well!

Thank you for helping me open up to possibility! I may not have believed you when we worked through it, but somewhere, you got through to me. So, thank you!”

–Jennifer  If you are interested in creating your own love story, contact Suzanne

 

Shannon & Scot

“I really longed for a relationship and at the same time I just couldn’t see it realistically happening…I’m a single mom with a full time job and a lot of other commitments…how was I supposed to fit a relationship into that equation? I also felt that being in a relationship would absolutely jeopardize my daughter’s happiness and well being. After all, in the past I would get completely engrossed in a new relationship and let all kinds of important commitments fall to the side – I just couldn’t afford to let that happen with my daughter. It felt safer to just wait for romance/relationship to occur once my daughter was grown and out on her own. While this plan seemed solid and the only option available to me for nearly eleven years, I harbored a lot of resentment towards others couples as I suppressed sharing love and intimacy.

Now with a clear and clean slate to work with I created just connecting with someone…if it lead to a relationship then great…if not, great. The important part was that I saw who I was going to be for myself, for a possible love interest, and most importantly for my. I gave myself a new outlook on love that I could step into. I’m now in a relationship that has continued to grow and blossom for over 2 years, and we are now living together. I continue to use the techniques I practiced in Suzanne’s workshop nearly three years ago to grow my relationship and steer it in directions that inspire me, my boyfriend and my daughter. I am truly grateful and free to express myself fully in this area of my life.”

–Shannon  If you are interested in creating your own love story, contact Suzanne

 

 

Brenda & Mr. Wonderful

Brenda has asked the her real name be kept confidential and I will honor that. You must hear her story about how she broke through to the other side. Hooray!

 

“I had a big fear of rejection, which was paralyzing in many ways. I felt deeply resigned and inadequate about myself and almost abnormal for not having a boyfriend. In fact, my longest relationship was only three months, and I’m in my mid forties.

 

By working with Suzanne, we created a clear picture of what is important to me in life and in a man in order to form a lasting relationship. I realised for the first time that I am actually good at relationships so why would my most significant relationship be any different?

 

By going through the exercises and doing the homework, I let go of regrets and self-criticism, and my self-confidence improved immeasurably. I am even having fun talking to strangers and being the real me in all company.

 

My thoughts and feelings have shifted to excitement, hope, anticipation and even a touch of impatience! My fears of rejection have lessened greatly. I looked for someone that I can be happy with instead of hoping that all the men I meet will like me. The dating process became a matter of the quality of connections, not the quantity.

 

Suzanne was extremely easy to open up to and trust, and she really made the process very enjoyable, natural and worthwhile.

 

I have met a lovely new man, and we have been seeing each other for over three months now. He is all of the many things that I wanted and more. We are having a wonderful time getting to know each other. We even went away together on vacation!

 

Thank you for helping me reframe my attitudes to men, relationships and love. You helped me be ready and able to recognise him when he came along, because I am quite sure that I would have let him pass me by if I had not worked with you. You made me focus on what was holding me back and what was really important to me in a partner.

 

For the first time in my life I am in a relationship with someone who loves me for who I am because I can allow him to see who I am, rather than hiding anything that might be difficult or troublesome about me. I have someone to support me in the challenges I am facing in other parts of my life and someone who can laugh with me about the silly stuff. It worked!” – Brenda

 

Jeremy & Sam

“Life was scattered and my relationship was over. It seemed like my life didn’t have a purpose. I also didn’t know where my career was going either. Things were heavy and downhill, and I was exhausting the people around me. Suzanne offered me an exercise to lighten my load because I was down and out. This exercise allowed me to not be afraid of being honest with myself and release all of the pent up emotions i was holding. I was deep in a muddy swamp of self pity. As I wrote and wrote and wrote, the guilt started to slowly disappear and I saw some new actions to take.

With a small glimmer of hope, but still in my despair, I knew something had to change, and was going to do whatever it took so I reached out to Suzanne for additional coaching. After I signed up with her, things instantly started to shift because I was willing to be a ‘yes’ to myself and my life. I said ‘yes’ to doing the work, even though I didn’t know what the outcome would be. Suzanne was the only person who didn’t offer me some “cliche” but instead said I could have anything I wanted and that started the fire burning to continue going uphill.

Within a few weeks, I can honestly say that I had a love affair with my job and I’m clear I’m doing well. My relationship with Sam is stronger than ever! I realized that we were just coasting along, and you can’t coast if you want a healthy relationship. I am now mindful of what I say, and put forth the effort daily.

We are now the kind of couple who inspires others and our relationship is filled with much more substance as well. I also saw that what I really wanted was a future husband, and we are now engaged to be married. I am very grateful to Suzanne and the tools she offers.”

–Jeremy  If you are interested in creating your own love story, contact Suzanne