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Jennifer & Jim

“Most of my dates would start off fast and then fade quickly, and I seemed to date a lot of unavailable men. I only dreamed of being adored by someone, and was starting to lose faith that their were men that wanted to be in a healthy relationship.

There was a gentleman I started dating just as we were wrapping up our coaching. I stayed intentional in keeping it light, letting him lead, JennJimBlogpicand believing it could happen for me. I now believe!!

Well, I can’t say it is merely coincidence that the guy I started seeing a couple months ago has turned into a ‘keeper’. And, he’s all the things I didn’t believe existed for me: he adores me, wants to protect me, is the alpha (former military guy, so that helps) is uber-bright, and we love lots of similar things. He’s asked me what my dream trip would be, and is already plotting how to make it happen. And I LET him. It’s a weird feeling for me to let him handle life. But it works really well!

Thank you for helping me open up to possibility! I may not have believed you when we worked through it, but somewhere, you got through to me. So, thank you!”

–Jennifer  If you are interested in creating your own love story, contact Suzanne

 

Shannon & Scot

“I really longed for a relationship and at the same time I just couldn’t see it realistically happening…I’m a single mom with a full time job and a lot of other commitments…how was I supposed to fit a relationship into that equation? I also felt that being in a relationship would absolutely jeopardize my daughter’s happiness and well being. After all, in the past I would get completely engrossed in a new relationship and let all kinds of important commitments fall to the side – I just couldn’t afford to let that happen with my daughter. It felt safer to just wait for romance/relationship to occur once my daughter was grown and out on her own. While this plan seemed solid and the only option available to me for nearly eleven years, I harbored a lot of resentment towards others couples as I suppressed sharing love and intimacy.

Now with a clear and clean slate to work with I created just connecting with someone…if it lead to a relationship then great…if not, great. The important part was that I saw who I was going to be for myself, for a possible love interest, and most importantly for my. I gave myself a new outlook on love that I could step into. I’m now in a relationship that has continued to grow and blossom for over 2 years, and we are now living together. I continue to use the techniques I practiced in Suzanne’s workshop nearly three years ago to grow my relationship and steer it in directions that inspire me, my boyfriend and my daughter. I am truly grateful and free to express myself fully in this area of my life.”

–Shannon  If you are interested in creating your own love story, contact Suzanne

 

 

Jane & James

This couple has asked me to keep their identities hidden for now, and happy they are willing to contribute their bumpy to beautiful story with us.

 

James and I were at a dead end, namely my dead end. You see James was separated but not divorced and was somewhat unreliable. There was love but little trust, connection that was matched by frustration and joy met by tears and anger mixed with passion.

 

As a result, I hit a wall and threw up my hands up in despair, and we went our separate ways. I had to cut ties to honor myself even though we loved each other.

 

So having tried to be out of love, and tired of trying, thankfully Suzanne came into my life. She was the obvious choice being so in love herself, and oozing the positive vibes of love, happiness and harmony.

 

I took a series of coaching sessions. The first one I went through an exercise from the book, and I cried buckets and buckets and buckets. And of course, I talked about James. The next session, more clearing, then 3rd session, what do I want?

 

I realized that James was what I wanted, but the behaviour was not. The conversations with James began again. What were we committed to? What had to change for us to work? What did we both want more of and what we were prepared to do or not do to have it?

 

After finding a great quote that says “the grass is greener where you water,” and discussing the messaging of dating with James, we started back at the beginning with dating and a clean slate.

 

Our relationship is sometimes joyous; sometimes hard; but we both wanted it so we persisted. There were times of painful honesty, tears and anger, and also laughs, fun and love. But mostly, we are committed to each other and having a relationship that works for both of us!

 

We have now been back together now for eight months, closer than we’ve ever been and happy planning our future. The path would have never been this clear if it hadn’t been for Suzanne, and I’m so happy. “ -Jane If you are interested in creating your own love story, contact Suzanne

 

Jeremy & Sam

“Life was scattered and my relationship was over. It seemed like my life didn’t have a purpose. I also didn’t know where my career was going either. Things were heavy and downhill, and I was exhausting the people around me. Suzanne offered me an exercise to lighten my load because I was down and out. This exercise allowed me to not be afraid of being honest with myself and release all of the pent up emotions i was holding. I was deep in a muddy swamp of self pity. As I wrote and wrote and wrote, the guilt started to slowly disappear and I saw some new actions to take.

With a small glimmer of hope, but still in my despair, I knew something had to change, and was going to do whatever it took so I reached out to Suzanne for additional coaching. After I signed up with her, things instantly started to shift because I was willing to be a ‘yes’ to myself and my life. I said ‘yes’ to doing the work, even though I didn’t know what the outcome would be. Suzanne was the only person who didn’t offer me some “cliche” but instead said I could have anything I wanted and that started the fire burning to continue going uphill.

Within a few weeks, I can honestly say that I had a love affair with my job and I’m clear I’m doing well. My relationship with Sam is stronger than ever! I realized that we were just coasting along, and you can’t coast if you want a healthy relationship. I am now mindful of what I say, and put forth the effort daily.

We are now the kind of couple who inspires others and our relationship is filled with much more substance as well. I also saw that what I really wanted was a future husband, and we are now engaged to be married. I am very grateful to Suzanne and the tools she offers.”

–Jeremy  If you are interested in creating your own love story, contact Suzanne